The most important relationship should always be with yourself because no matter what happens, you will always be with yourself.
"The better you know yourself the better your relationship with the rest of the world."
Toni Collette
Remember, how you treat yourself is how you will treat others. Your relationship with yourself is the foundation of everything else.
Five Steps Towards Self Love
Make peace with your insecurities
Acknowledge your insecurities and forgive yourself. We are all human and its ok to question your insecurities. By removing the judgement towards yourself, you are acknowledging your insecurities. I am writing this because I chose to a allow a certain circumstance happen in my life AGAIN. I would normally beat myself up for the decision I made. You have to learn not to allow that situation to happen again. Remember, your own insecurities will become and obsession if you continue to feed it.
Discover what important to you
Discovering what's important in your life is so amazing to find. Switch your focus and write down your top three things that are important in your life.
God
Family
The Women's Confident Movement (My nonprofit)
I say these because these are the things that feed my soul. These are the things I deserve the opportunity to focus on. What's your three things that are important to you?
Live intentionally
What's your purpose and meaning in life? Why are you on this earth? Is your decision making supporting your future? Knowing your purpose and meaning in your life is the most amazing feeling. Because I know God has given me a purpose in life, I never feel lost in my path. When you set your actions to live with your purpose you will know the meaning for your life.
Set Boundaries
Giving yourself boundaries by saying no to activities and interactions its showing your self love. Sometimes you just need those few moments for yourself and that's ok. If you have people in your circle who stress you out and bring you down, you don't need them. Learn to create your space and evaluate your relationships and decide who do you want in your tribe.
Practice self care
"Oh my favorite!" Practicing self care is something everyone deserves. Nobody in there right mind is to busy for self care. It's very simple, nourish yourself. Commit to excising, nutrias diet, getting enough sleep, and social interaction. When you show yourself love through actions you will always make yourself a priority. It will set your foundation for your growth and living life towards your fullest potential.
“Be healthy and take care of yourself, but be happy with the beautiful things that make you, you.”
Beyonce
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